getting married

a colleague of mine just now reminded me to not getting married early. she said it on purpose. and the other colleague argued why not. and i was desperate for an escape. so i walked away.

can't blame her because of her bitterness. she's been through a lot and probably not a sweet one in marriage. like my mom.

the thing is i want to decide for myself in this one because i'm the one who'll be getting married and to choose to whom i'll be getting married with. but opinions will be taken into consideration.
it's common for people at my age getting married. some even already have children.

marriage is a no play-play one. i get it. marriage is not about sexual intercourse only. i know.

so stop freaking out. it's not like i'm getting married tomorrow or engaged to someone any minutes from now..

i'm not saying i'm fully grown up/matured. but i know what i want in a marriage. after witnessing a few. after considering opinions.

but until then, please be calm and act normal. mucho gracias.